I'm sure there will be many hardships and challenges ahead, but please don't let them defeat you. But to be defeated by that sorrow is another matter. Some people, when they experience a series of sad events, conclude that they are unfortunate and weak, and extinguish the right of hope with their own hands. But such an attitude itself is what makes one unhappy. you have to develop the life force necessary to serenely overcome whatever hardships you may face, to never be defeated by them. we all have our karma, and we never know what challenges we will face in life.